Befriend your YIN!!!

 

A sequel to "Sweet Nothings" Lead you to everything!!!

 

 

Since childhood years we've come to understand and experience that life is filled with two major components;

 

Happiness and unhappiness:

 

  • Happy moments, happy feelings and happy experiences
  • Unhappy moments, unhappy feelings and unhappy experiences

 

And we battle, resent and express tremendous anger towards everything that makes us unhappy, unloved, and unwanted and unsuccessful.

 

Why can't we always be happy and content with life we ask ourselves each and every day.

 

There is only one answer to this deep question: Life is made of yin and yang and without yin yang life simply cannot exist.

 

Indeed we cannot escape it- The Yin and the Yang exist. Yin and yang balance life skillfully. Yin and Yang represent a full circle; the circle of life and the mystery of life filled with changes, growth, experiences and learning's The yin and the yang color and enrich life.

 

Let's do a simple mind exercise:

 

Imagine, you always stay as a child, live with your parents, same home, same friends and every day doing the same thing. Your life is good.

 

Visualize that for a few moments. This is a friendly powerful and necessary exercise.

 

Tap into your energy level and feel the moment and be in the moment.

 

You will realize that this is not realistic and it's not something you desire and feel happy about.

 

The question is how can we discover the mystery of yin and yang and how can we achieve our dearest dreams and goal in life: reduce the power of the yin and increase the existence of the yang in our daily life; reduce the stress level and increase the success level. It's apparent that happy people are successful people. Successful people are not necessarily happy people. Our society interprets success with financial security and tangible possessions. Money does not have anything in its nature to make you happy therefore the so called success is not happiness.

 

Happy people are people who understand this concept and practice and learn how to shift each and everyday the pendulum from the yin to yang and vice versa. Happy people are genuinely successful people. They have personal liberty and a peace of mind. These people enjoy the process of life; build and create and find joy in everything they do, experience feel and think.

 

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For generations people have been battling with this very concept; implementing formulas, tools, tips, ideas, inspirations, wisdom and yet regardless to advanced technology we are still in the same place as we were before hundreds of years ago; troubled and poorly managing and balancing our lives.

 

 

I read hundreds of books, written a few self growth books and throughout the journey of my life, facing tremendous challenges I've come to a simple realization and awakening. Indeed through difficulties and deep emotional moments I discovered something huge, realistic and totally workable.

 

I am thrilled to share with you in this article my finding. Furthermore I will create and build an entire book around this troubling concept; a sequel to "Sweet Nothings" lead you to everything!!! My 10th book published 2012.

 

This book's title is" Befriend your Yin !!!

I would like to take this opportunity and introduce to you the concept of Yin and Yang!!!

 

This Simbol (Yin-Yang) represents the ancient Chinese understanding of how things work. The outer circle represents "everything", while the black and white shapes within the circle represent the interaction of two energies, called "yin" (black) and "yang" (white), which cause everything to happen. They are not completely black or white, just as things in life are not completely black or white, and they cannot exist without each other.

While "yin" would be dark, passive, downward, cold, contracting, and weak, "yang" would be bright, active, upward, hot, expanding, and strong. The shape of the yin and yang sections of the symbol, actually gives you a sense of the continual movement of these two energies, yin to yang and yang to yin, causing everything to happen: just as things expand and contract, and temperature changes from hot to cold.

 

The hidden key to shift the weight from Yin to Yang is not simple and yet it can be done. The 3 steps to befriending your YIN - are:

1. Befriend your life Yin's

 

List the 3 utmost crucial areas/events/people you don't like, don't enjoy doing, or don't give you a good feeling

2. Link and learn to connect your yin to your yang

Compare the areas/events/people to a fine ribbon

Connect the ribbon to one another

3. Maintain and juggle the relationship

Connect the ribbon to the 3 areas/events/people you like, enjoy and getting a good feeling with

 

This is the road to your everything!!!

 

It is obvious and clear to us that yin and yang go hand in hand, just like day and night and they cannot be separated. The two energies create "your everything"

 

Most importantly, seek and find "your everything" and once you do you can start your path to everything. Remember life is never one size fits all.

 

Your blueprint belongs to you only and your life puzzle and your yin yang fits your blueprint. Whatever happens to you in the course of your life fits only your blueprint. This understanding brings you to an amazing place; a peace of mind while you build and exercise an appetite for your life, your original existence.

 

Te yin represents all the things, events we don't like to do, the things we do not want to feel, the experiences we run away from and the events making us unhappy, troubled and overwhelmed. The yang represents all the things we enjoy to do, events we love and experiences making us happy and uplifted.

 

In reality we must apply and understand that everything that stands for the yin in our life is representing a fine ribbon connecting us to the Yang's in our life. Without that ribbon the yang is a stand alone event, experience, feeling, an island we cannot reach. Connecting the islands with the yin ribbon creates our complete life puzzle and furthermore giving us the tools to balance life. In the process of connecting and befriending the yin we become liberated, happier and ultimately master skillfully our life.

 

Is there anyone out there who would decline such an offer? Would you like to reach your everything's?

 

Looking forward to sharing with you 2012 the book titled "  Befriend your ying!!!

Finding your everything?

 

 

Article written by Ana Weber

Author, speaker, consultant, inventor, journalist